Self Advocacy 💜

It doesn't matter what it is. Whether it is your sexuality. Your safety. Your health. Your relationships. Your love life. You have to be your biggest self advocate. No one is going to stand up for yourself better than you. Even if you have a living will and a medical power of attorney with specific…

Teach them how to love YOU… ❣️

This is the hardest thing I think I've been dealing with for a very long time. I have been in EMDR therapy and it has changed my views on a lot of things. The biggest thing I'm currently learning is how to teach people how to love me the way I deserved to be loved.…

She shines brightest in the darkness

She Overcame, She shines brightest in the darkness.Image by: Alisha Light Photography Instagram: @alightp They expect women to fold when the pressure is applied too hard. But, what they lack to forget is that when enough pressure is applied a diamond is created. A Queen never folds beyond her circumstances. And a Queen never succumbs…

I used to think this love was normal 🖤

I used to think arguing back and forth every single day was normal. I used to think that being talked down to was love. I used to think that being pushed to the limit emotionally and to my boundaries physically was normal. I used to think that being cheated on and having to "fight for…

What you do in your off season…

Something I’ve had to teach myself. Being alone this time around, I am so happy. I am trying to find me and making me happy. It’s important, the work you do in your off season. It’s just as important if not even more important than what you do in season. I use this sports reference…