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Letters to you
I released my very first self published book on April 20, 2023 titled, Letters To You. It a compilation of several journal entries, creative writing prompts, letters, and the very first Custom How to Love Me Journal. I wanted to create this book because I believe that it is very important for survivors to feel…
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Dear 2022, what the hell was that?!
My 2022 started off with such high hopes, and soooooo many wishes for an incredible year. And it started off much better than I could anticipate. Being chronically Ill, you never know what to expect, but the unexpected is always just lurking right around the corner. And that is what happened to me. I started…
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Views from a hospital bed 🏥
Views from my hospital room consist of my very sexy fian-bae who has been nothing short of amazing. But that been the only part of this that has been a relief and pleasant. This medical system that America operates under is broken in so many ways. It took 5 ER trips during the month of…
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Ever since I was under age..
I was under the influence of pain. -Jhene Aiko, Nobody I have never heard realer words that reflect the life that I have lived and continue to live. Since the age of 4 I have been subjected to an abundance of pain. And when I see baby photos of me it makes me cry. It…
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What is medical gaslighting? A How To Guide to prepare you for any doctor appointment about your chronic illness
What is medical gaslighting? Medical gaslighting refers to a situation where a healthcare professional undermines or dismisses a patient’s symptoms, concerns, or experiences, making them doubt their own reality. It can be particularly harmful for individuals who are chronically ill, as it invalidates their experiences and hinders their access to appropriate medical care. To prepare…
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Going no contact with a narcissistic parent
Going no contact with narcissistic parents can be a difficult and emotionally challenging process. Here are some common challenges you may face when going no contact with a narcissitic parent: 1. Guilt and self-doubt: It’s common to experience feelings of guilt, self-doubt, and even a sense of obligation towards your parents. Society often emphasizes the…
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How do i trust myself again?
How do I trust myself again after being in abusive relationships? The number one question I get when I am coaching clients is, “Coach Nia Renee, how do I learn to trust myself again after I have been in abusive relationships? Obviously I cannot trust myself to make the right decisions because I picked wrong…