She Overcame, She shines brightest in the darkness.Image by: Alisha Light Photography Instagram: @alightp They expect women to fold when the pressure is applied too hard. But, what they lack to forget is that when enough pressure is applied a diamond is created. A Queen never folds beyond her circumstances. And a Queen never succumbs…
It's like I checked into rehab. I've completely isolated myself and have focused on me, solely me, since my break up in February. And it is the most liberating feeling in the world. I was speaking with a coworker and we discussed that time apart or time alone is like personal rehabilitation for the mind,…
I used to think arguing back and forth every single day was normal. I used to think that being talked down to was love. I used to think that being pushed to the limit emotionally and to my boundaries physically was normal. I used to think that being cheated on and having to "fight for…
... let's pretend that this time around I get to be the woman. I get to be the one that gets chased. I get to be the one who gets to see what it's like to be led by a man. A real man. Let's pretend that I am the one who gets to hold…
Something I’ve had to teach myself. Being alone this time around, I am so happy. I am trying to find me and making me happy. It’s important, the work you do in your off season. It’s just as important if not even more important than what you do in season. I use this sports reference…
I have intimacy issues. I have safety issues. I spent majority of my previous relationship thinking and believing that I have intimacy issues. And I cannot say that it was a completely wrong thought or a wrong path of thought. But, being told over and over again that I need to work on my intimacy…
I don’t think about the good times, as the bad outshined the good, no matter what I painted to the world. I don’t think about how I miss your touch or how I miss being in your arms because I do not miss any of those things. I don’t think about how heartbroken I…
I lay there and think. I dream. I pray. I put with all the energy in my body into the positive thoughts of being able to have that dream relationship, marriage, life, etc. And what those thoughts consist of me thinking about a man entering my life and being nice to me. Nice, it is…
PTSD, also known as Post Traumatic Stress Disorder affects far too many people. Those who have been through extremely traumatic situations are often subjected to PTSD, but, unless seeking professional help how does one move forward? Is there truly a life after PTSD? The answer is yes, my babies! I have recently been reading a…
I have to buck the fuck up and move past the trauma at which I have been subjected to, yet again. I have been trying to create content and I have been trying to create posts that aren’t centered around the current things at which I am dealing with. But I decided that is not…
